My Parents taught me that manners, respect, and hard work is the way to succeed. I could do everything that you mentioned above going into kinder.
So you try to point the children in the right direction. Then the parents don't care.
The Problem is with the parents.
Fine to me was successfully reaching my career goals. The educational and technical requirements to be in my position are extremely high. All went well for only having 1/2 day of kinder.