I have three step kids 2 boys and 1 girl. The boys are 14 starting freshman and 15 in high school now. Im using the tough love method! If they do anything like that I would kick there a$$ because only losers do that shi% huffing paint , cocaine, meth ect... and if they did they wouldn't amount to anything. Plus I would cut there life line and take there cell phones. So if they go to a party and its offered to them they need to think what it will really cost them. O ya plus I threw in I WILL be doing random home UA's now that there in high school.